Creative Writing Tip: DO create distance with your work in progress

hop that train. go the distance.

hop that train. go the distance.

Today’s creative writing advice–one in my series of more creative writing DO’s— is easy to admit, simple to agree with, and difficult as all get out to implement:

DO create emotional distance between yourself and your work.

I honestly feel that anyone, with the time and dedication, can write a novel. Writing a good novel is something else entirely. That takes even more time, and sweat, and sometimes even tears. It requires devastating blows to your ego. The only possible way to survive those blows is to distance yourself from your creative output. Truly. Consider all the things that go into shaping a great book:

  • Cutting scenes. Cutting cutting cutting. Scenes you spent weeks working on and worrying about. Scenes you LOVE. Scenes are that honestly well written and that you’re proud of. Scenes you’d like to show off, because they say something you or about life you would like to share with others. To quote Stephen King, you have to “kill your darlings.”
  • Admitting what’s not good. No first draft of a novel is fantastic, especially when you’re first learning how to write. To successfully edit, you have to be able to recognize that your darling has lots of flaws. Sure, you love it, and you should love it. That’s not a bad thing in the slightest. But your darling isn’t perfect. It needs work. If you can’t recognize where things aren’t right, you can’t make them right.
  • Keeping an open mind when others say something doesn’t click. At some point, you should have beta readers and editors if you’re considering publishing your novel. And those beta readers and editors will say some things you need to hear, but you don’t want to. When they tell you something you don’t like or agree with, you need to step back and calmly, without bias, consider the merits of the other position. 99% of the time, they are right.

All these things require distance. You can’t be defensive, you can’t be thin-skinned, and you can’t cling to the work as it is because it’s your baby and you wrote it. It’s hard as the dickens to approach your work as though you have no personal investment in it and to judge its merits that way. In truth, I can’t say I’ve ever managed to do that. But I try to get as close to that as I can.

Tips to create distance

So, how can you create distance to the best degree possible? There are different strategies that can help. I wanted to share them here.

  • TIME. Time works wonders. Let your work sit for a while (Stephen King suggests two months but that’s impossible for most people) and then come back to it. Reading it after that separation will allow you to see it “fresh” to a real degree. The inconsistencies, the flaws, the problems with description and pacing, they will jump out at you as you read because you no longer have freshly ingrained knowledge of the work in your head to interfere. You’ll be reading, in as close a way as possible, to the way your readers will be reading.
  • DO I WANT A GREAT BOOK OR NOT? This is a great question to ask yourself when you’re on the fence about cutting or changing something you know you probably should, but you still don’t want to. Sure, that scene is cool. But it doesn’t add to the story. It doesn’t add a thing. In itself it might be great, but keeping it in will decrease the overall quality of the novel. So, do you want a great book, or not?
  • WOULD I RATHER RECOGNIZE A PROBLEM, OR HAVE READERS DO IT? It’s so easy to dwell in the land of willful blindness. It’s so easy to choose not to see what’s wrong about your own work and just not deal with it. Resist that temptation. Because whether or not you admit them and deal with them, the problems are there. You have two choices: you can recognize them, or let other people recognize them. What’s the better option?

9 responses to “Creative Writing Tip: DO create distance with your work in progress

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  2. Good tips, thanks. The more I learn about the process of writing the less it seems that I know. Kind of that whole ‘you don’t know what you don’t know’ situation. lol

    • hahaha! I think that’s all of us 🙂 90% of what I’ve learned comes from simple trial and error, I’d say. The rest from creative writing classes in college and Stephen King’s “On Writing.” If four letter words don’t offend you it’s a fabulous read.

  3. Reblogged this on jbcultureshock and commented:
    For my Wednesday feature about writers and books, I wanted to share this post with you guys from one of the blogs I follow. This really is such an important thing to do. You can get so much more out of your editing sessions when you’ve put some distance in between you and your work.

  4. My book IS my baby, but babies have to nurtured and taught how to grow up – they need potty training and help forming new words, they need time to walk and then to write themselves….all so that they can grow up to be responsible adults. And, as a parent you have to let others affect them too – their siblings, their teachers, their friends – before they go into that grown up world and start to affect others themselves.

    If my novel is my baby, then I’m here to support it as it grows into the manuscript I dreamed it could be. As much as I might love it, I need to let it grow and then set it free – it’s not easy, but parents around the world do it everyday, so I sure as hell want to be able to do it too, with my ‘baby’ – my book!

    Great post.

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